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My Boyfriend Has Tried To Attack Me 2 Nights In A Row...After Waking Up Screaming

by Paula
(Indiana)

My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and the first time I came home late and thought I just scared him ... He sat up and looked at me really wierd, a creepy kind of look. Then out of nowhere he screamed a growl kind of scream and grabbed my arm and started twisting... I yelled his name and he instantly woke up and was extremely confused and I was scared to death. Never happened again until 2 nights ago....


He was sleeping and his arm was on me ... I nicely moved it off of me and there it was again he sat up and gave me that weird scary look and all the sudden same growl like scream and grabbed my arm again I have a burn like spot on my arm from him twisting it.

Again he snapped out of it after I screamed his name. He again was completely confused and after that every move he made for the rest of the night I was scared and ready to jump out of bed.

Last night I let him go to bed first... I quietly went into bed trying not to wake him then AGAIN he sat up .... Paused.... And gave me that look... Screamed that ugly scream... And I jumped up out of bed as he jumps up on the bed... I am terrified!

I run out of my bedroom and he starts to run behind me I am feeling like there is a robber in my house I swear I ran around the island we have in the kitchen twice screaming and he chases me I scream his name and tell him to stop and he snaps out of it!

Seriously I had had it! He said what are we doing in the kitchen and why am I sweating?!? I was furious ... I know it wasn't "him" but this time he scared me so bad! I yelled at him and he was just as scared as I was but my god!

I am now seriously scared to sleep with him in our room I don't know what I am supposed to do next... 2 nights in a row? He has no depression in his past nor traumatizing experiences.... I just don't get it ... Came out of nowhere but I feel for every single person who deals with this more than we have....

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